Don't let anyone tell you that this is a hopeless cause cam. You work on you and you only with your IC. He/she is no position to know whether or not your M can be saved.

IMO... we give up hope ONLY when WE are ready man. Personally, I'm not easily defeated, and I have faith in my ability to see this through to the bitter end if necessary. I will not give up.

I suggest that you don't either. You won't regret walking through the gates of hell for you M... even IF you are unsuccessful.

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce