My faith gives me the courage to move forward

[MrBond]

But that's not your call. If she chooses to do that, it's her choice. It may not be the wisest choice, but it's her choice nonetheless.

Some may say that you don't have common sense from not contacting a L to protect your assets. Is that a fair accusation? Of course not. I believe the saying goes "let he who is without sin cast the first stone". Unless you start understanding that you need to accept people the way they are, how they think, what they do, you will remain in a state of paralysis. You expect people to act and behave they way you believe they should. It doesn't work that way.