Well I didn't bring him food or walk by his job site again.
But I sent him a text basically saying it was good to see him. That I've missed him. That I'm not intending to stir up anything, but if he ever wants to give me a friendly call it'd be cool.
I didn't actually say anything too far out. But honestly, if an ex sent me that msg, I would make conclusions about intentions.
So... now I've FINALLY stuck myself out there and we'll see if he bites. If not, so be it. If he calls or text response I will move so slow I'll make turtles look fast. I will be a friend only unless and until he leads it elsewhere.