What is good to hear, is that she is helping you through the distorted thinking of assigning all the blame to yourself. That is really important. You can't really move forward as long as you hold on to that belief.
Good call.
Something to continue to work on cam.
Now the C telling you 'it's over' in one way or another.
The truth is chances of R in these sitchs is rare, but not impossible.
But what I am guessing the C wants you to understand is you need to be prepared for either outcome.
If she tries to talk you out of any hope... That might be a red flag to me.
But not being there. Knowing what was said. I can't gauge that.
But regardless. For you. You DO need to be prepared for either. Life will go on regardless cam.
Can you keep hope without holding onto it? That is where you should work on getting to.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
