A question i wanna throw out here. I AM too available to him and i want to try pulling back a little. In my situation, where i cant just take off and drive...i am wondering what i can do. Going to my room will appear as pouting cause that is what i do when we argue and it would be offputting to him.

Would stopping the following possibly push him away further?

- going to him for a hug
- starting converations
- spending more time outside than indoors where he is
- less talking

I dont want to appear that im pouting...