Those are important but painful steps. Ex-P didn't have his mail forwarded until days before the OW was to move in...and because I requested it. It hasn't stopped the junk mail from piling up with his name on it though.
I put off checking the mail because it hurts so bad.
DG, you are so strong, SO STRONG. Someday I want to be where you are.
Bless you DG, keep on keeping on.
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011