Have you read Divorce Busting and/or Divorce Remedy?

Let me clue you in to something.

You are the bad guy right now.

And likely will be for a while.

I wouldn't give her more reasons to run to him or his defense.

What do you hope to accomplish by confronting OM?

Why is she leaving? What are her complaints against you?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am