Funny that you both say he should be alone. I have said this so many times and just the words "alone" terrify him. He asked, "why would I want to be alone?"
That is why I suggested he move back into the house and I move to my mom and dads when he is gone. The kids won't be displaced. My H is a freight train engineer, so when he is at work he is gone for 24 - 36 hours at a time. This will save money, and I am all about being financially smart during this divorce. Hopefully our house will sell very soon and then we can figure out what comes next.
He needs to figure his sheot out! He needs a IC more than anyone I know. His MLC stems from major childhood drama/secret/death of parent at 25. He needs so much help just for him! but he won't go.
plain and simple truth is that I have yet to see any action only words. and he is a SMOOTH talker let me tell you. Tells you everything you want to hear - only this time it's not enough! I MEAN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
