I haven't posted you before but I have been in your shoes already and may shed some light upon your current situation.
It's very good you told him what you want:
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1. I want the man in my life to love me and only me
2. I want to be Plan A - not Plan B. I don't want someone with me because it is easier or the "right thing to do". I am no ones backup plan.
3. I am really truly happy exactly the way I am. Without him.
He notices you are a strong woman once again and "says" he's having regrets.
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Can i get through this time frame where I won't be with OW? & once again my girls.
Why did they break up? Was it b/c he's ashamed to introduce her to his family and friends?
He just got dumped, no one likes to be dumped. He hasn't felt what it's like to be alone yet. Time alone gives oneself the opportunity to think. Think about what's important to them.
You stated your expectation for a R. Now it's time to think about how/what he is going to do to prove to you he's in it for the right reasons.
Full disclosure of his cell phone? MC? IC for him? What else do you need to have assurance?
Do not take him back to easily! I made that mistake.
You have some things to think about now. ttys
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