Regretful and not sure how to proceed

[In_Shock]

yes, that's what I'm thinking too jb. I DO NOT want C to undermine my DBing efforts. C does NOT understand what this is all about.

I know EXACTLY what you mean about the subconscious also. That's kind of what I was thinking and trying to figure out a way to say. If C knows all sides, C is going to have an opinion. C's are human.

I looked for solution based therapy and cannot find anything in my area, but I'm going to keep trying.