In shock
It may feel weird but the IC must maintain your privacy. Think if there was only one surgeon in your town, would it bother you that everyone went to that surgeon for help? If it is an awesome C I would continue with that person. Unless it is not helping because you are uncomfortable. just my 2c


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden