It sounds like things are positive for you at this time.
You have really good interactions.
Is it possible that your wife is trying to express some things to you that she didn't feel like she could express while you were drinking?
One precaution - using absolutes in language can be a little risky if the long term goal is to rekindle the relationship. Inevitably, conflict exists in any relationship and it is those closest to us who often hurt us the worst.
It would be a shame if you set up unrealistic expectations about what a relationship in the future with you would look like, via the use of words like "never" or "always"
Keep up the good work!
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.