Regretful and not sure how to proceed

[In_Shock]

so much useful advice. I've made a conscious effort to really begin to apply the DBing all the time. I may backslide, but I am going to try to remain in control of my mouth--- my worst enemy by far. NO R talks NO matter WHAT. DETACH DETACH DETACH.....lovingly.

I guess the GAL thing is the most important goal for me right now. (quietly= to myself with mystery and not TELLING HER ABOUT IT!! LOL) I'm thinkng of ideas --- I'll post later on today more -- but I wanted to thank you guys for so so so much patience. 25, I can see your patience and how you DB'ed for so long. You haven't kicked my a$$ yet for all my whining. You truly seem to be an angel of patience and compassion, and even though it's through a message board, it radiates into my being.

jb- also-- patient, caring and kind. Your words also affect me deeply.

I can't believe the wonderful quality of people at this site. WAS really don't know the type of people they are hurting....