Those “feelings” do get in the way, however it will get easier over time. I know that it doesn’t seem like it now, but be patient with yourself. You already recognize that the feelings are getting in the way. That is why GAL is so important. It will help get yourself re-centered.
How was your weekend? Did the Divorce Remedy arrive in the mail yet? I read some it myself on my trip over the weekend. It was good to get refreshed.
Telemark recommended that you detach, so I wanted to share a link about developing detachment.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa