Youngster's WAW Still Chooses OM!

[Truegritter]

How is my listening to her about OM "enabling" her decisions?

You are not letting her feel the consequences of her decision.

She is making sure she has you still "on the line"

And you are allowing it.

More importantly. MOST importantly. How does it make you feel about YOU?

IMO you NEVER will need to hear about how it is breaking or got broken with OM.

Even if/when you begin to reconcile. It doesn't matter.

It is noise.

Let her figure it out West. On her own.