Punkin, I agree with Beatrice. Your XH is one of the more deranged ones, his choice of an ow shows how deep he's in.

I don't say this about many people because we only get one side of the story here but your XH seems to really have chosen an evil, manipulative person. She is so proud of herself for her 'accomplishments'.

You reap what you sow. It's a matter of time before the house of cards that they've built comes tumbling down.

Keep living your best life Punkin, and yes, please keep posting. I'd miss my hilarious little sis if you decided to leave. You have so much wisdom and strength that help so many walking this path.

I agree with the others, Punkin, it's his loss.

(((Hugs)))