time and distance

[any chance?]

2step:
Wow. My thanks for your time and effort, and mostly for your wisdom. I need to digest your comments. I have visited your posts, but need to go back again to comprehend.

You have been in this place for 11 months. It took me 2.5 years of turmoil to get to where I am, but I have only been in this place for 3 weeks. 3 weeks is nothing. You have an X. I have no idea what I have. But I do know you are correct:

.."Right now IT IS OVER and the sooner you accept that the faster you will heal..."

I need to embrace that. I cannot dwell. She is where is she, physically and mentally, and I am no longer in her life. Realizing I am not even in her thought process is killing me. I am too strong to let this destroy me. Perhaps someday she will recognize what she has lost. Doubt it. But maybe.

2step, my thanks. Your efforts mean alot.