My faith gives me the courage to move forward

[25yearsmlc]

I think it totally smells like a scam, I don't know what your sister's story is, but is it possible she planned this all to scam you out of the money? How come she couldn't cash her own check? Or go with you to your bank to deposit it?

I agree, you need a lawyer ASAP, nothing smells right around your financial stuff and I am afraid if you are this gullible, your ex may be stealing you blind too.

Rysmom you said the Lawyer(S) you have spoken to "all say" that the only way you can protect yourself is by filing...

He's living with OW but b/c he asked you to watch the dog...so you thought OW was gone and therefore?? What? I'd think he was with OW...

Sorry Rysmom, but can you think objectively now

and see how you are grasping at straws about your xh, and staying stuck AND getting victimized repeatedly?

You are risking so much by not filing. And there's no way that filing would make your h blame you for the end of the m!

Good grief, he might actually think you have a backbone...I cannot see how it could hurt. You have virtually no direct contact with him anyhow...

What do you realistically have to lose by filing, that you would not have lost anyhow?

And you might be saving your retirement...what if by delaying, you end up on welfare and working 2 jobs to pay for a small apartment? I can envision that happening easily....


At this point, I feel this is self inflicted damage you are volunteering for. But I sure don't know why.

I don't care if your xh gives you veggies from a garden or sends you an AC filter...I mean, so what that he's not spewing venom... so what?

he lives with OW and overtly involves your son with them like they are the family and you are the outsider...

And again, and now for some time, he has been spending too much and saying he doesn't have enough for necessities. That gravy train is about out of gravy Rysmom...protect yourself.


You've been warned more than once, by him...