I'm in a bit of a quandry this evening, as news reached me of my XH's marriage to OW. D34 called and gave me the news. She saw it on FB. The new Mrs. C posted pics of, get this: Her getting out of a limo in full white wedding ensemble ( 3rd or 4th marriage) Pics of the NEW HOUSE WITH PLENTY OF ROOM FOR ALL THE KIDS ( written that way in caps) It was obvious that she wrote it, and that it was intended for my children to see. How juvenile can this woman be? And how stupid is he?
I'm not really hurt, or angry, just flabbergasted. He is 49 yo and acting like a teenager. I should be used to this by now, but WTH? I actually hurt for the girls, who not only got to see it on FB, and the postings were obviously aimed at them and me, but that's how they found out.
Anyway, my life is quiet and simple at this time, and I'm thankful for that. The cool weather made me do a stupid thing this morning, though. I felt so spunky I rode my bike to work. 2.3 miles. Made it in 15 minutes. No problem. Felt great. Know what? The ride home, while only on a slight grade, is ALL UPHILL! By the time I came panting into my door ( 35 minutes) I was gasping for air and telling myself I was never going to do that again!!!!!!!!!!!
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
