[quote]This is what I don't understand. Why would she want to even hold onto me if she said that she is so done with me? And....why does she want to be friends? .... Well, I know things are not even close to what she had planned, but she still seems happy to me[quote]Really Tad? You don't see it? It was pointed out to you in a later point, at least one possible reason. But to be honest, you can search for why for a very long time. And still you may not find it. What is important is that it is. That's living it in the moment and letting the rest go. The rest is not working for you and is not healthy. Let it go. The why is not going to change things. It will not change the what, but it will make you crazier than she is.
Realize that her being happy... let's just say that you have proven to be too close to the situation to effectively judge that. Let's leave it at that, shall we?
If you have to look at what she does and says, only look at what is in the moment and treat it as such. Don't look back nor forward with the actions.
Drop FB. It's not helping nor will it. It's part of your old life and has no place in your new except to hurt you. Let it stay turned off.
Be good to you, Tad. Show others how you should be treated
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
