I wanted to write to you as I think you may be waiting to hear from me from what H has told me.
I am doing ok, and while I am deeply and genuinely concerned for what is taking place here, I don’t buy that this is a crisis of our marriage. I just don’t.
H, is a good man, I chose wisely, 25 years ago and I stand by that commitment. I love him, but he is in a darn mess at the moment.
I thank you both for your love and support, and will of course stay in touch.
As sad as I am for how things are at the moment, I choose to live my life in gratitude for all that is positive in our lives. We have our health; we have three wonderful boys who are making their way in the world in good and noble ways. We are financially secure due to both of us working hard and living responsibly. The life we have built together is good and true and we have so much to be thankful for. Our family unit is strong and loving. The proof is in the pudding. And our pudding is sweet and filled with love.
