When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[mishka422]

Good point. When did I ask him to participate? I guess never. It was assumed on my part. He was the 'man' of the family and that was his 'job' even though I paid everything, handled all the bills and did all the worrying. That role hasn't changed, it's just missing an entire income with all the same bills.

Man, I really need to grow a pair!