Well this weekend was something else. Saturday our house keeper came and did her thing. I guess that while cleaning she broke my h IPOD speaker. I didn't know that until I was out with a friend for dinner. He texted me and of course was really pissed off. Told me that he didn't want to pay someone to come to the house and break things. I texted him back that I would talk about it when I go home. Big mistakes, first he tells me that he never wanted to hire house keeper in the first place and that he wanted to fire her. So I said OK but that I was not going to clean this big house by myself. We use to each take a floor and clean then switch the next week. He said that we could go back to the way it was and I said fine. Then monster really came out. Wanted to know why I spent 110.00 on my hair and had my hair done now, and why I had my nails done, always have except that now I have blond extenstions put it. Then wanted commented that I was on the internet for awhile on Saturday and that I joined facebook. Was talking to people on this site and DB site. Then mentions that now I go out and listed EVERYTHING that I have done since the BD. Going to lunch, out for coffee, bar-b-ques with friends. Says for all he knows I'm dating. Funny thing he has NEVER EVER been jealous. but was totally acting that way. Said that now since I look different and my body is different I think that I'm all that. Funny, I lost all of this weight because of what he's done to me. I just listened to him and then when he was attacking me I just said that I was going to bed and walked away. I don't give him power to hurt me anymore and he doesn't like it. Said that we don't have the money for me to do these things and we need to sit down and make a budget. He's the one with expensive taste and loves to spend money. I have never been like that. I went to bed laughing my ass of because I knew that the house keeper thing was just an excuse. It probably starting the whole thing but he just went off in a totally different direction. Yesteday we had the kids over for dinner and except for eating with us he stayed in his man cave. Wouldn't even come back in to have dessert with us. Before I wasn't sure if this was MLC now, I think so.
