When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[mishka422]

There are two adults in the house, yes. Marc has two parents. That is where it ends though. Gabe has his finances and bills and I have mine. The fact that mine are 20 times more than his is not his problem though. He gives me what he can but it doesn't make up the deficit. He didn't create he deficit and I had become dependent on my mom's help after he had left. Now I'm stuck in a mess but it's a mess I'll find a way out of.

What is the alternative? I'm apparently blind OT. I showed him every number, told him what the problems are. He flat out said, "I know, it stinks. What can be done though? You'll work it out." And then walks away. Do I drag him bodily back to the table, tell him to pay up or get out, or go on handling it by myself and keep family peace while having none for myself?

Trying to involve him is futile. I try, honestly I do, but it's like trying to get my son to do homework.....useless!