Thanks for the response kat and mish, I just wanted to see if I was insane for trying to do this and what other people's viewpoint was. As for BOB if it is what I think it was it was getting the job done most of the time anyway. For some reason I preferred that to relations with my H. Unfortunately for some reason the exh retained possession of that so I'll have to get my own.
Now for some exciting news! Started househunting today and I already found the place. Its so perfect that it scares me. I hope I get it, please, please, please!
