Little help? My W is planning a part at our house this weekend with people from her office, including her boss and his W. Her boss....well, you could read my past threads....but he and my W work closely together, have become friendly, and may have had a budding EA during the past year. For the past 3-4 months may W has made thier interactions a bit more professional, probably as a result of my concerns which I shared with her. She enjoys the social interctions and attention (from guys, not so much from women), and flirts as a way to gain acceptance when she is nervous. We have the common problem in Ms where one person puts time and energy into looking good for others, but not their spouse. OK, well you get the idea. Made progress DBing and things are much better, but this is going to be a challenge. I resisted having this party, for obvious reasons. Maybe nothing really happened or maybe it is over. Either way, I do not want this man in my house, around my kids. But neverthess the party is on. So my question. How do I make it through this party without an argument? How do I DB my way through this???? Help.
