Treading water - time and patience

[NYCPeter]

Thanks for the response and this all makes sense.

I agree now may not be the time to move out (I actually don't think any time is a good time - but that's a one sided opinion).

We had a pleasant evening yesterday and joked about about a book she's reading that I had already read.

Work is not great right now (we just lost a major client that makes up 25% of our revenues) - so that adds to the pressure, I'm just trying to keep my head down at work and do the best job I can.