don't expect fast results but realize this really is mostly about HIM. He's confused now so you need to back off big time b/c pursuing him is a bad bad idea when he's going to see it as pressure. In effect, "Pursuit = pushing him away". May sound counter intuitive but that is why you must read the Div Busting books. I prefer the 2nd one, Div Remedy.
Start reading that asap. I think Ch 1 is online.
Good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016