Hang in there Mike. I know when people tell you this that it just seems like empty platitudes. I felt the same way all summer. People kept telling me things will be better and time heals.

I found out that it does!

My wife has only been moved out for 5 days, but so far I am surviving. In an odd way, I am enjoying it! I don't know why... I am going to ask my therapist today. I never thought I would feel this way.

So focus on yourself, reach out to friends, and try to keep busy. Things will get better!


Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012