Hang in there Mike. I know when people tell you this that it just seems like empty platitudes. I felt the same way all summer. People kept telling me things will be better and time heals.
I found out that it does!
My wife has only been moved out for 5 days, but so far I am surviving. In an odd way, I am enjoying it! I don't know why... I am going to ask my therapist today. I never thought I would feel this way.
So focus on yourself, reach out to friends, and try to keep busy. Things will get better!
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012