Valeria, I think when i said vindicated, I meant for believing it was a MLC, when some at the time we were posting, were trying to say it didn't exist, and they were simply WAS. [Remember IMP?]

I relate to all you have said - the compassion, their brokenness. I also think they feel pretty worthless. My private theory is that when they are in MLC they think somehow they we will always be there, and it is only as they come out of it that they realise we have moved on, or are doing so.

So moving on and GALing don't have much impact on them when they deep in the crisis. They do not really see anything else that is going on except through their own distorting glass . . .