Still in the marathon - did I miss a turn?

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Right there with you, jb...I mean, I miss my W, not yours...

Looks like you, DG and I all got hit with the same stick yesterday. I think we all miss the persons our spouses used to be, not the alien life forms they have turned into. It's also doubly difficult because our S's are involved to some extent with OPs, so not only are we feeling the total rejection but also the feeling of being replaced with persons who our S's think are "better".

Remember...it's still going to be easier being "us" than being "them". Small consolation, I know, but all we can do is continue on the path we're on.