From the man's perspective, it isn't fair if you vent when you are having difficulty handling them when you wanted the physical custody.

Maybe a couple of years from now when everything is settled, but not early in the process.

I would have said the same thing.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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