You don’t know me and I don’t know anything about you other than what you have written. I don’t post much but your story hit home for me today. I will tell you the advice you have been given is the only thing you can do for yourself. This is going to be a long hard road you are about to travel and all I can do is encourage you to do what is best for you. You and your son are the only thing important in life right now.
I am going to tell you that I did all the wrong things as far as pursuing, begging, crying thinking I knew what was best and all the other things listed on that list of 37 items that Sandi has provided. Let me tell you I am positive that if I would have stood up and been the man that I am today, I wouldn’t have pushed her into the arms of another man. The thing is I thought I knew my W better than anyone on an anonymous board and how could this stuff work? Well this stuff does work and it can save you and possibly your M if you let it work. I was the hard headed new guy that thought he was doing what was best and now I see where I made mistake after mistake. Don’t be that guy, listen and be the best dang man you possibly can and it will save you.
Clear your mind and focus on what is really important your son and you. I know how difficult this journey is and trust me I don’t wish it on anyone. I will say if you follow what the good people have to say here you will come out with a whole new mindset that will change your life.
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
