I am not very religious but am more spiritual. I think it is a choice each of us has to make for ourselves. It does amaze me though about the people that proclaim to be very religious but they live together , are friends with benefits or even bed hop. It is pretty hypocritical to me.
As for the other matter, I was going a bit crazy with that too. Sometimes you just have to break down and get a BOB.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory