I'm not sure why h did this tonight, but he signed into the private account and told me he was writing ow to tell her he felt it was best he not communicate with her, and basically told her he was sorry to have dragged her into his problems. He invited me over to watch him send the email, and then he deleted the account. He said he wanted to explore counsling, and didnt feel he could focus on ow and me at the same time. Before he went to bed, i noticed he had been crying and i asked if he was ok. He said, you probably dont want to hear it, but i will miss talking to ow, and told me he liked her a lot, it was not love but he liked her.
I told him i was sorry he felt sad and appreciated what he had done. It is very hard for me to have compassion for him when he chose to lie and set up the account so he could persue her while she is away out of the country.
I wonder if he really saw her as an escape for his pain?
He keeps telling me he wants to be free to come and go as he wants, then turns around and says he wants to go into counseling with the possibility of staying together. Makes no sense. Kaffe, you are right...it is pointless to snoop. Not sure how much more i can handle finding out anyway.
