Wife wants a divorce,but I do not.

[HHIF]

When we first moved back in together she told the kids that her and I were going to try to work things out but that didn't mean that everything was fixed.

we shared a bed for a little while but she felt uncomfortable and talked about leaving again so to keep peace I slept on the couch for awhile until I grew tired of that and tole her that I was moving back into our room and I hoped she would stay,she then turned our office into a bedroom and that's where she sleeps now.

I have not completely quit the DBing but I did feel like we may be on the way back at times only to realize I was the only one feeling that way.

Things happen and time passes,if I had stuck to more consistent DBing and not pursued her or told her that I still loved and asked her to put forth effort to reconcile instead of just giving up,maybe we would be in a much better place now but I can't go back only forward from here.

I have asked her to attend Retrouvaille with me before pushing forward with D. she hasn't responded.