Devastated Pt 3 - WAH and OW

[Julz]

I had a revelation today. My h didn't leave me because he doesn't love me. He does deep down truly love me - I know that. But he fell in love (well what he thinks) with someone else and had to choose. Why choose his boring old wife who he's been with 14 years? We were in a rut, life was boring - that's life when mum and dad work and you have kids. She was single, albeit with a kid (but one kid, not two), fun, easy, energetic. Don't blame him for choosing her. He hasn't had fun in his life for so long.

I'm one hell of a catch for someone but - single mum, successful business owner, homeowner etc - actually I worried that men will find me too independent!