Trusting,
Again, I see a similar timeframe. X is more humble and is nicer to me, but also has new woman and has not made any gestures towards me.

It sounds as though OW's days are numbered. Look at how things have changed. Now she is jealous of you.

I sometimes wonder how he would respond if I were not in another R, but my new guy is so very kind that it nearly brings me to tears sometimes.

I think for me, it is not a matter of not forgiving but more a matter of thinking that I don't want to put myself through some of the things that X put me through again.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D