Snodderly -- thank you for your prayers. And I especially thank you for your wise guidance during the years I was on this board.

Trusting -- The only thing I know for sure is that I want lots of time to make the right decision. I learned to make a life without him and if I choose to let him back into my life, it will be at my pace and on my terms. He is already respecting that because he has backed off on "pushing" to come home.