First of all, congrats to you on your daughter's doctorate and on the other daughter's wedding.
And I am so glad, Twink, that you and your h were able to enjoy both days.
It happens, though, doesnt it? When you are together and getting along and among family and you say to yourself, if we can share days like this, what the heck is the problem?
I know you know the answer, as do I. But sometimes it does make you think.
Unfortunately, there isnt anything we can do about it.