So HHIF...

You mention that she moved in because of money and the kids and has shut you out so you could not rec...

But what had you been doing to continue to DB? Did you do anything FOR YOU, that would make you a man that only a fool would leave?

While it might seem unfair, in the original DB book, and even in DR... as MWD states, it takes one... she might be waiting for you to change... and that svcks... but if it take you changing... and she does nothing... and remains the same woman... do you want to be with her?