Val,
You are very wise to take it one step at a time and yes, you are absoluely correct...it took 6 long years to break it and w/hard work and total honesty, it will take quite some time to get to a place where you feel comfortable and can trust him again.

Val, I am very happy to see he's finally come back to earth and realized what he had done and can now see that you are the "prize". I'm praying for you and your family.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.