The good news is .. my H wants to come home.
The bad news is .. my H wants to come home.

I first joined this site in 2005. My H and I had been married 20 years. It was a good marriage but almost overnight he went from a good man, husband and father to someone I didn't know. He did all the usual MC stuff .. motorcycle, young girlfriend, DUI's, verbal abuse, etc.

We D in 2007 but he never quite "cut the cord" with me. He lived with OW for 5 years. They are now over for several months, he has quit drinking, he sounds like the "old H" and wants to come home. I don't know. This will be a slow process, if it happens at all.

Anyway, just know that sometimes they DO come back .. and it will be up to you (like it's up to me now) if they can return.