Gabbysmom, actually I was leaning toward nothing anyway. Just sympathizing with CTH about having feelings about his XW bday. What he got me last year for my Bday was so generic I don't even want to get him anything and he got me nothing for Christmas. But then got something for me from my youngest for Mother's Day. I can't remember for sure what I got him for Father's Day, I think it was a card from youngest and she made a t-shirt at Girl Scouts so I think that was it.