Here are my honest thoughts: At first, when the bomb dropped, she knew she wanted out. The rebounded with OM. The emotional and sexting affair was ended, friends remain. Now she still believes she needs to be on her own for awhile to decide what she wants. I believe she'd like to 'stay with me' but only after I get help and she sees that I can Stay that better man. I am not sure though, it could be my fears of being alone justifying. I just can't be sure...but I suppose who can.