Cadet,

There is something in the concept of opposites that is encouraging to me so I am all hands on deck with this idea. I think I am having difficulty understanding what some of my 180's need to be at this point.

My H texted me tonight that he told his Mom and other family members about our separation. He told them not to contact me and that I would be in touch when it was ok with me. What do I so with that? His family loves drama, so I don't want to make a big scene that they can play with and fester with for their own self satisfaction. They will call me I am sure. Do I take their calls? What should my stand be with regard to his family. Sadly enough I don't have family who will care, so my side of things doesn't matter.
I would love to know the 180 to do with respect to his family. Can anyone help me with this? I want to implement 180's as soon as possible. Thank you.