Walking,

Good golly, you have given me a lot to think about. Thank you. I hope by some miracle and osmosis this transformation takes place in me, and yields an incredible woman. I am open to this taking place. So it seems to me, that we get down to two things......

My hopeful success of keeping my marriage in tact depends on

1. Me getting a life and drawing my husband back through my transformation.

2. My husband working his way through the stages of MLC...... and there are no assurances that he will make his way through this maze.

Do I have this correct?

So what does the profile of a person who successfully works through his MLC look like? Who makes it? Who doesn't?