No pursuing, No R talk, as tempting as it is since things are going well! I assume she knows you want to reconcile? If so, I suggest you stay the course you are on. She's noticing the positive changes in you (much better than you trying to point them out to her...that's no good!), and you are getting along well and spending quality family time together. She's definitely still invested in this relationship based on what you've written. The best thing you can do is remain consistent. Time is on your side! Let her come around in her time. I'm so happy for you that things are going so well and that you are remaining strong and healthy!
