This is my thread. It has been inactive for a long time. <sigh>

In the interim, H and I have managed one D's awesome doctoral graduation weekend, and other D's perfect wedding weekend with kindness to each other, focus on our children, and absolutely no conflict. That is huge in the great scheme of things, but I admit it also troubles me. I simply do not understand how we can be so successful in our common goals, but so unsuccessful otherwise. He has made his decisions, and it is what it is, but I do struggle with why two people why so obviously care about each other and their children can not work things out between them.

<sigh>


M 65
H 64
T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08
Two Ds

Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man