AGREED A girl....Julz, my W has been messing/contacting/whatever OW for about 2 months and it's that newness...the drug of infatuation fueled by dopamine and all that chemical nonsense.
Remember, while U and I may not have always been perfect spouses, Julz, we have been there for them. We have children with them. We have been through the better, now we're trying desperately to hold on through the worse. Most people just walk away. Not us. We try to keep our family together. It takes character, Julz. Character. If our spouses do leave us for good, I really believe they have lost a couple of great women! And they will believe that as well at some point when the real world catches up with the lust.
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed